Blurb for BEYOND I DO:
Will
seeing beyond the present unite them or tear them apart?
Marriage . . . it’s more than a
happily ever after. Eternally more.
Ainsley
Meadows, raised by a hedonist mother, who cycles through jobs and relationships
like wrapping paper on Christmas morning, falls into a predictable and safe
relationship with Richard, a self-absorbed socialite psychiatrist. But as her
wedding nears, a battered woman and her child spark a long-forgotten dream and
ignite a hidden passion. One that threatens to change everything, including her
fiancé. To embrace God’s best and find true love, this security-seeking bride
must follow God with reckless abandon and realize that marriage goes Beyond I
Do.
For your reading pleasure, a peek at Jennifer's opening:
Used by Permission. Beyond I Do: A Novel, by Jennifer Slattery (New Hope Publishers, Birmingham, AL) NewHopeDigital.com.
Ainsley’s stomach churned as she eased
into the Whispering Hills Apartments’ parking lot. Broken beer bottles and
other trash littered the ground. A few tenants had draped sheets across their
windows. Other windows were boarded up. One was busted in, shards of glass held
in place by silver duct tape.
Please
tell me this isn’t where Marie Nelson lives.
Ainsley compared the address Deborah
had given her to the rusted numbers on the complex in front of her. This was
the place. And from the looks of it, the very place Ainsley shouldn’t be, at
least, not alone.
Her phone chimed, making her jump. She
glanced at the screen. Her fiancé’s number flashed. Cutting her engine, she
answered. “Hey, Richard, what’s up?” She shoved her purse and computer case
under the passenger seat.
“Where are you?”
“Doing a favor for Deborah. Why, you need something?” She grabbed her pepper spray from
the glove compartment.
“Who?”
As if she hadn’t talked about the woman
countless times over the years. “Deborah. Eldridge, the one who told me about
Christ.” And kept her from going completely insane or spiraling into rebellion
when Ainsley’s home life fell apart. “Sometimes I wonder if you ever really
listen.”
A pack of muscular and hard-faced men
gathered around a navy pick-up watched her, causing her already queasy stomach
to cramp. There were four of them, two dressed in black with thick chains
draped across their neck. The largest was covered, neck and arms, with tattoos.
She looked away, suddenly acutely aware of her shiny Honda Accord and
department store garb.
Oh,
Lord Jesus, please keep me safe.
“That Deborah. Right.” A keyboard
clicked on the other end of the line. Richard was probably working on final
edits on his book. “Now I remember. So you’re in Smithville?”
“Not exactly. More like…” She scanned
her surroundings again, her gaze lingering on a used diaper decaying on the
ground ten feet away. “More like… the Admiral Boulevard area.”
Richard made a choking noise, as if spewing coffee. “You’re
where? Please tell me you are not
in the crime center of Kansas City.”
**BEYOND I DO is currently available on Amazon Kindle for $2.99.
Have you
ever wondered why some people seem to rise to new challenges while others
appear to do all they can to avoid them? And why is it some press on after
failure, even sustained failure, while others bounce back like little boys on
pogo sticks?
These
are the questions my father asked me during a conversation one day. And now
that I’m grown, now that I’ve seen some of my dreams come to pass, I’ve begun
asking these same questions. Because like my dad, I want my child to succeed
and to find the fulfillment that comes from reaching her full potential. And as
I contemplate this, I’ve come to realize “success”, in whatever field, is made
up of many necessary ingredients: perseverance, diligence, pursuit of
excellence, resilience, dedication . . . confidence.
And a
healthy amount of risk taking.
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I
suppose we all have areas of weakness that keep us from living up to our full
potential. Insecurities that hold us back. Bad habits that steal our
productivity. But I can’t help but wonder if at the root, our greatest
hindrance comes from fear.
When the
recession hit and 1.2 million Americans lost their homes, my daughter began
asking about recession proof jobs. She was only twelve, an age when you or I
were still dreaming of being baseball players, actresses, or rock stars.
Luckily,
my husband and I helped her get past this, not by assuring her of tomorrow, for
we all know another recession, or war, or epidemic, could hit at any moment.
(Sounds a bit eerily familiar, doesn’t it?) Nor did encourage her to dream
bigger. Rather, we reminded her of the power of the Dream Giver.
Because
ultimately, God decides who “succeeds” or fails, though His view of success is
much different than ours. But when we adopt His view, everything changes.
We
change. Or more accurately, we surrender ourselves to His change within us. Understanding
and accepting God’s definition of success, in my opinion, encourages the growth
of all those character traits I listed above.
For you see, God’s definition of success is quite simple: obedience.
This
means, every hurdle and setback is actually a chance to shine. To please our
Heavenly Father and to sense Him saying, “Well done, good and faithful
servant.”
When an
obstacle hits, rather than getting frustrated and longing to quit, we’ll turn
our eyes upward as we pray about the best way to overcome.
When
“failures” come, and they will, we open wide our hearts to receive the
instruction only God can give.
When the
journey feels long, arduous, confusing, and uncertain, rather than allowing the
uncertainty to paralyze us we can turn it into an opportunity for spiritual
stretching.
And this
is when something beautiful happens. Once we boil everything down to obedience,
we place ourselves squarely in the Father’s—the dream giver’s—hands.
The only
One able to equip us for that which He created us to do.
This was
what I found, anyway. When I first sensed God calling me to write, I grabbed
hold of that dream with both hands, stressing over every rejection and setback.
But once I made it about obedience, everything changed. I loosened my grip and
focused on being the best writer I could be.
A funny
thing happened. Once I relinquished control, the doors I tried to barrel
through began to open.
And it
stirred my heart to praise, which is the only proper position for a redeemed,
transformed heart.
You can read Jennifer's previous Everyone's Story's post, When God Has Other Plans, here.
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Author's Bio:
Jennifer Slattery writes soul-stirring fiction for New Hope Publishers, a
publishing house passionate about bringing God’s healing grace and truth to the
hopeless. Her debut novel, Beyond I Do, is currently available in
print and e-book format for under $10! You can find it on the Amazon link
below.
Places to connect with Jennifer:
To read a free 36-page excerpt of Jennifer's BEYOND I DO visit here.
I've often wonder how two people can have the same thing happen to them and one come out stronger and the other doesn't. And I don't have an answer. Great post and your book sounds great!
ReplyDeleteI've always thought it depended upon: bio-chemistry (one's makeup), one's childhood exposure to life and resilience to bounce back to upheavals… or not, one's reactions to the good & bad breaks in life, and most importantly, one's faith beliefs.
DeleteI've thought on this a lot, too. Though I know there are a fair number on nonChristian overcomers, I do believe faith plays a big roll. I also think supportive friends and family members helps.
ReplyDeleteWonderful post and just what I needed to hear. It's so easy to get caught up in worldly definitions of success. Thank you Jennifer and Elaine!
ReplyDeleteThanks for visiting, Autumn. What I needed to hear today was that this blog reached someone's heart… and I'm glad it found its way to you. You made my day bright.
DeleteI'm so glad today's post encouraged you, Autumn, and you are so right! For me, it helps to pray Psalm 19:14 often, "May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing to You, my Rock and my Redeemer." Through this prayer, I am asking God to align my thoughts and heart (which includes my desires) with His. :)
DeleteObedience. Thanks for bringing such a clear perspective on success, Jennifer. And the better we know God, the easier it is to trust and obey, in the easy and in the hard times.
ReplyDeleteNice to see you again, Janet. I took a walk earlier in the brisk autumn air and reflected on these very points.
DeleteAmen! And thanks for popping in and for your encouraging words. :)
DeleteJennifer, I've never heard a better definition of success! Thank you for reminding us that obedience should always be our first, last, and ever-present goal. Congratulations on your debut novel!
ReplyDeleteKathy, thanks for visiting last evening.
DeleteI love my guests!
Hi, Kathy! Thanks for the encouraging comment. :) Blessings!
ReplyDeleteI'm thrilled for you and this next step in your writing journey, Jennifer! Many blessings!
ReplyDeleteWelcome to Everyone's Story, April! I'm so excited to see you here!
DeleteApril, thank you so much for stopping in and for celebrating this step with me!
DeleteJennifer, what a beautiful post. I so appreciate the reminder to make this writing journey about obedience. Like you, I stepped into the journey fisting each dream with both hands and striving. I'm learning God just wants me to go with His leading. It's at a slower pace, but it's been a more pleasant journey since I began making it about obedience.
ReplyDeleteYour book sounds great!
Jeanne, I'm so with you. I look back and now see that the beginning of my writing journey's focus was in the wrong place: where I wanted to go and not where He wanted me to go... and what He wanted me to learn. I really believe that it is taking me a while because I have a lot to learn!
DeleteJeanne, I'm so glad you found my post encouraging. :) It sounds like you are walking closely with God. That's awesome and the best place to be. :)
DeleteThanks, Jennifer, for your week-long appearance on Everyone's Story. You've received viewers from all over the world and several lovely comments. I hope this blesses you with encouragement to continue to write the stories of your heart and to give others hope.
ReplyDeleteBlessings to all.
Elaine, thanks so much for having me! I always love visiting your blog! :)
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