Friday, August 8, 2014

Connie Almony: Controlling One's Story, A Different Perspective

Everyone's Story welcomes back with much affection the lovely Connie Almony. Since the first time Connie has appeared on Everyone's Story she has gone on to publish her first novella in Christian fiction. Congratulations, Connie! Whether expressing her musings on her personal blog or the group blog she participates on, or in her moving fiction (her novella is a must read for the inspiring combo of the power of faith and love), Connie zings her message through to the heart. Please check out Connie's Giveaway and her special message below. We're both looking forward to hearing from you.


Giveaway:
Connie is offering one $5 Amazon Gift Card, which is perfect for either purchasing her novella AT THE EDGE OF A DARK FOREST or any other e-book of your choice, to one randomly chosen commenter. The winner will be announced here on Friday, August 15th, between 5-6 PM EST. To be entered in the Giveaway, please leave your contact information within your comment. Thanks!


            Blurb for AT THE EDGE OF A DARK FOREST:
Cole Harrison, an Iraq war veteran, wears his disfigurement like a barrier to those who might love him, shielding them from the ugliness inside. He agrees to try and potentially invest in, a prototype prosthetic with the goal of saving a hopeless man’s dreams.

Carly Rose contracts to live with Cole and train him to use his new limbs, only to discover the darkness that wars against the man he could become.

At the Edge of a Dark Forest is a modern-day retelling of Beauty and the Beast. Only it is not her love that will make him whole.

Why I’m My Characters’ God by Connie Almony

One of the things that I love about writing is the way God inserts Himself into the process, revealing something new I needed to know about Him. Yes, I know He is a big, powerful, wise and merciful God, but writing has allowed me a greater glimpse of what all that means.

Why? Because for a little while every day, I AM GOD.

Oh, don’t gasp and call me crazy because you think I have a God complex. Believe me, having had a glimpse of what His job entails I know I wouldn’t want it. Too much responsibility!

What I mean is that, to the characters of my story, the people I birth, the settings I paint, the situations I plan, I am their creator. I decide who lives and who dies, who grows and who remains stuck. I let them fall and create challenges to stretch them. I am their God.

How has that changed me?

Years ago, as a drug-prevention counselor in a narcotics-infested area, I learned how good people could fall prey to their surroundings. If there is no one around, pointing a direction of purposefulness and godliness, a young person will often slip into making destructive choices just because “everyone is doing it.” They don’t know any different. In fact, though the grant funding my position restricted me from counseling drug addicts, our center stretched the word “prevention” to include “preventing from further use” so I wouldn’t be twiddling my thumbs all day. By the time most of these kids got to high school they were either using or their parents didn’t spend much time helping them because they were too busy managing the effects of the “using” child. What some, who have grown up in a supportive, loving, Christian environment, would call dysfunctional was not only normal for these kids, but to them a necessary means of survival.

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When faced with many of the scenarios my clients lived under, I became more cognizant of the wisdom behind God’s statement, “Judgment is Mine.”  I can honestly say, if I’d lived in the environments these kids lived in on a daily basis, I don’t think I would have resisted as much as some of them did. How can I judge them when I do not know the whole story of their lives and have not experienced the same pressures?

You’d think this would have been enough to own the verse mentioned above. But something sunk it deeper into my cells than getting to know my clients from the outside-in. It came with developing my characters from the inside-out. I know their destiny almost from the moment of their birth. I know what they are called to do. I know they will hit hard roads, all of which are of my making, and that those roads will define who they are. I ache for them when they hurt (I even cry as I write) and I rejoice in their triumph. I worry when they sin, because I know how it will impact them down the road. Sometimes, I let them feel the impact of that sin so they will see what God says is true, and therefore trust His loving guidance in the future.

Some of my characters appear to be horrible people … at the beginning. Some are only broken, seemingly weak. But I know what will move them and strengthen them, and so I make them move, because without that movement, they will be forever lost.

This knowledge has given me a new perspective on my relationship with God and His people. I cannot judge someone for their sin because I do not know how they got there (their backstory). I also cannot chastise God for the challenges He places before me, now that I have a better understanding of what He means to do. I will trust Him, because He has given much, and I suspect that though, as the Great Author He is, His stories are fraught with turmoil, His specialty is for Happily Ever After.

Check out Connie's previous appearance on Everyone's Story when she addressed the issue of A Dog With Skin Problems, An Autistic Child, and Heaven Sent Joy

Connie's Ah-hahs To Tweet:
Visit with author Connie Almony whose novella is receiving a lot of attention. (Tweet This)

Like Beauty and the Beast stories? How about one with a war-vet, amputee with PTSD? (Tweet This)

Author Connie Almony: Are you God to your characters? Visit Connie on Everyone’s Story. (Tweet This)

Author's Bio and Places To Connect:
Connie Almony is trained as a mental health therapist and likes to mix a little fun with the serious stuff of life. She was a 2012 semi-finalist in the Genesis Contest for Women’s Fiction and was awarded an Honorable Mention in the Winter 2012 WOW Flash Fiction Contest. Her newest release, At the Edge of a Dark Forest, is a modern-day re-telling of Beauty and the Beast about a war-vet, amputee struggling with PTSD.

You can find Connie on the web, writing book reviews for Jesus Freak Hideout, and hosting the following blogs: InfiniteCharacters.com and LivingtheBodyofChrist.Blogspot.com.

You can also meet her on the following social media outlets:


33 comments:

  1. Elaine, Thanks so much for having me on again. I miss hanging out with you at conferences this year. I also wanted to let you all know about my new author website www.ConnieAlmony.com. I have a newsletter readers can sign up for there as well.

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    1. Connie, it's a pleasure to host you. And once again, do I ever wish we lived around the corner from each other!

      What a wonderful website. Viewers--I hope you'll visit Connie's new cyber home. Note: you will be able to read the first chapter excerpt on Connie's site. Do check it out.

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  2. This really sounds like a good read. Again, it's wonderful to read the interviews and get to know some of the authors a little more personally.

    Ann Ellison
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    1. Oh, Ann, I'm so glad you've visited. I recently read Connie's novella and think that it's a wonderful story, heartfelt told from beginning to end. And thanks for the feedback. I try to encourage my guests to share something of themselves and that others can relate to in an uplifting way.

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    2. Ann, thanks for stopping by. If you win the gift card you can buy the ebook (only 99cents) and other e-reads as well :o). Have a great weekend!

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  3. At the Edge of a Dark Forrest sounds like a book I would love. And I loved learning more about Connie. I used to work under grants teaching abstinence and how to make healthy choices. Sometimes seeing the homes the children lived in made me wonder how they did as well as they did.

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    1. Connie's novella was definitely a great read--I loved her smart dialogue that made her heroine shine.

      Pat, I am so thankful that this world has extraordinary people like you (and Connie) reaching out to others to help them in this shaky world.

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    2. Pat, I think you know what I'm talking about then. I have so many stories of real-life struggle in my head that would make a grown man cry. So many small heroes in the everyday, beating challenges the average person cannot imagine. So glad I serve a Big and Powerful God!

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  4. This sounds like a very different book, and I understand what she says about God in our writing. I believe the reason so many of us have the desire to write is because of God's urging. Mankind has always accepted storytelling as a way of passing on messages that matter the most. Jesus used stories. We are God's voice to those who cannot hear The Word but read the words that deepen their understanding of how He can change their lives. For the time that it takes to read one story, we just might be the only touch of God they know. So, keep writing.

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    1. Karen, it's always nice to see you here! I'm glad Connie chose to explore this subject with us. Like the two of you, I agree that there are a myriad of reasons why God has not only chosen us to relay His stories but to teach us life lessons as well. I can only hope and pray that I will honor this opportunity and make Him proud.

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    2. Karen, story is hugely important in imparting His message. Jesus did it through parable. C.S.Lewis said Imagination was the natural organ of meaning. He felt he reached deeper with his fiction than he did with his apologetics. I know I quote more fiction than I do non-fic :o).

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  5. You don't need to enter me, but I wanted to stop by with my support! Y'all will love Connie's book!

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    1. Ane, as always, it's nice to see you! Support is wonderful. Thanks.

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  6. Ane, have I told you I love you :o)!!! Cyber hugs!!!

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  7. Connie, thank you for a wonderful and inspiring story. I too have found writing Christian romance a huge source of emotional and spiritual growth as I journey with my characters.

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    1. Thanks for visiting, Autumn. These days, I'm finding life lessons--that I know are directly from God--in both the big and small aspects of life. How can we, as writers and readers, not think that He is behind what our characters show us?

      Hope to see you again. Blessings.

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    2. Amen, Autumn!!! That is so true. Sometimes it feels like I'm journaling "outloud." I didn't realize how much writing was for me, and not so much the reader. Praise God. He just plain uses everything doesn't He?

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  8. You caught my eye with that title!

    Writing teaches us so much: 1) Creating realistic characters is not as easy as it looks. 2) Even those who look like they have it all together fall on their faces from time to time. (One of my characters is going through this right now.) 3) We learn to view things from God's perspective, and attempt to see the whole picture.

    Thanks for an article that made me look at writing from another angle.

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    1. Susan, my specialty as a counselor later (working in a Christian setting) was counseling perfectionistic young women with anxiety disorders. Those are the ones who have it all together on the outside and feel empty and useless on the inside. Brokenness draws us to God. When we confess that part our relationship with Him can only deepen!

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  9. Nice to see you again, Susan. I'm glad you enjoyed Connie's segment.

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  10. I'm looking forward to this. It sounds like such a great read.

    marypres(AT)gmail(DOT)com

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    1. Hello, Mary. I appreciate your visit.

      Connie's story is quite gripping. Do check out her new website if you'd like a sneak preview.

      Hope to see you again.

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    2. Thanks, Mary. I hope you get a chance to read it :o)! I enjoyed writing it.

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  11. Hi Connie, Grabbed your book off Amazon! Looks great! Tweeted out about it too!

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    1. Holly, I appreciate your visit. Do check back later for Connie's reply.

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    2. Holly, thanks so much! Your book Crooked Lines looks great too!!!

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  12. Elaine you always have such interesting interviews. This sounds like a good book. Tweeted this for you.

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    1. Barbara, it's so nice to see you again. I enjoyed Connie's novel and I'm sure it will touch your heart as well. Thanks for the Tweet.

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    2. Thanks for stopping by, and of course, tweeting the post, too. :o)

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  13. Connie, I thank you for the joy you've brought to me in both friendship and as my blog guest. Based on your numerous viewer hits I know you've made a few ponder and have lifted their spirits about their writing and the books they read.

    Thanks to for the Gift Card Giveaway! The winner is…

    Ann. Yea, Ann. Happy reading. Both Connie and I will contact you in direct emails.

    Hope to see everyone again.

    Blessings.

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    1. Yippee!!!! Ann, Congratulations. You'll be getting an email from me soon.

      Thanks for having me on your blog this week, Elaine. Really missing you and hope to see you soon. Well, at least we meet in cyberspace--sigh!

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    2. No matter where, you're in my heart, Connie.

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